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Excerpts from... "Making a Not TO DO List"
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If you are living on a reduced income, you could qualify
for government housing assistance. This
can be a very important benefit.
Your local social services office is probably the best starting point
for finding out what services are available in your area and
state. You can also check the National Housing Law Project
(NHLP) web site (http://www.nhlp.org)
for a list of links on fair housing and low-income housing: http://www.nhlp.org/html/links/index.htm
Those whose income is less than $18,000 may qualify for a live-in aid
through Section 8 Housing assistance. You can usually deduct
your medical expenses (including supplements, if you have a
letter from your doctor) to help you qualify for Section 8.
We meet the third Saturday of each month between 2 and 4
p.m. in Room 5 of the Education Conference Center Building of Fairfax
Hospital. Use the blue entrance from Gallows Road.
Look for the small building on the left behind the gazebo.
Park on the right in the employee parking lot.
Update 05/06. Location now Mason Governmental Center in Anndale. See Meetings Page.
- August 17: ELISA/ACT testing, Carrie Zipper
& Tory Trocki, (410) 268-8085
- September 21: Vision therapy,
optometrist Dr. Dennis Cantwell, (703) 941-3937
- October 19: Mind-body harmony, John
Cox, Dr. of Hypnotherapy, (703) 435-6002
NOVA CFS/FMS SUPPORT GROUP
Elly Brosius: (703) 968-9818
Toni Marshall: (410) 647-7578
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Excerpts From . . .
Making a NOT TO DO List
By Eunice Beck, RN
[Eunice Beck writes about living with CFIDS and fibromyalgia and is the Coping Corner columnist for Immunesupport.
The entire text of this article is available from the CFIDS & FM Selp Help website http://www.cfidsselfhelp.org/artcl_not_to_do.htm
. Read more of her writing at www.ImmuneSupport.com
To do lists are a necessary part of our life. Still, we
can't let them govern us. Recently, I heard a "life coach" on one of
the talk shows. She talked about how she had been able to organize her
busy life. However, one of the ways she managed to cope intrigued me.
She said she made herself a NOT TO DO list.
Activities to Avoid
In the book Fibromyalgia & Chronic Myofascial Pain, by
Starlanyl and Copeland, the authors list "Activities to Avoid: staying
in the same position for long periods, traveling extensively without a
break, performing repetitive movements, exercising too much, immersing
yourself in water less than 88 degrees Fahrenheit, becoming overtired,
going without food, wearing high-heeled shoes, wearing tight clothing,
doing heavy work, exposing yourself to electro-magnetic fields for
extended periods of time, smoking nicotine, or ingesting alcohol, salt,
junk food or caffeine, spending time with people who make you feel
badly." I have made a "not to do" list for myself. For
instance, I have never been very comfortable in pantyhose, so I rarely
wear dresses. If I do, they are long so I don't have to wear hose.
[Note from NOVA CFS/FMS Group
Leaders: Many of us use salt and wear support hose to counter
the symptoms of orthostatic intolerance-so do what's best for
you. Toni Marshall also has a "not to do" list and adds,
"Wearing a dress is even better if you don't care about proper dress
shoes. Why ruin a perfectly comfortable outfit by wearing 'toe
pinchers'. I wear my running shoes."]
Expanding the List
A very important thing on my "not to do" list concerns putting the
needs of others before the things I need to preserve my best functional
level. Of course, there are situations such as family illness, and
small children where this may not be possible. However, we must learn
to rank our health at or near the top of our list of priorities.
Negative "self-talk" is another thing on my list. When I pay attention,
I notice that the more tired and frustrated I become, the more negative
names I am calling myself. My spouse frequently reminds me that calling
myself these names is not good for my mental health.
Putting myself in the situation where I have to hurry is another no-no
for me. Hurrying, such as to get ready for an appointment, really adds
to my fatigue level. I guess it must be the extra adrenaline that pumps
into my system when I rush that makes me feel so exhausted and
stressed. Even the chores around the house are done when I feel like
doing them. I don't "freak out" if the laundry goes unfolded for
several days. The floor gets vacuumed when it needs it. If all of the
day's dishes don't get washed until evening, I'm OK with that. I'm
convinced that a layer of dust protects my furniture. My house is nowhere near filthy, but it's not spotless either. It's
Do you have a NOT TO LIST? If not, perhaps you should start one. It is
yet another step toward health, both mental and physical. Take care and
What is CFS/CFIDS?
Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS)—also known as
Chronic Fatigue and Immune Dysfunction Syndrome (CFIDS)—is
defined as a debilitating and complex disorder characterized by
profound fatigue, pain and cognitive problems not improved by bed rest.
These symptoms may be worsened by physical and mental
Persons with CFS function at a substantially lower level of activity
than they were capable of before the onset of the illness. Recent
studies estimate more than 800,000 Americans are suffering with
For more information about CFS/CFIDS, contact the CFIDS Association of
http://www.cfids.org or call 1-704-365-2343 for a free packet. (Ph# updated 05/06).
See also our What's CFS and FM? page.